Domestic Violence Information and Resources
What is Domestic Violence?
Domestic violence is a pattern of behaviors used by one person to gain power and control over another in an intimate or family relationship.
Domestic violence can happen between:
- Current or former partners or spouses
- Dating partners
- People who live together
- Family members or caregivers
Domestic violence is not just physical abuse. It can include many forms of harm.
Domestic Violence May Include:
- Physical abuse (hitting, pushing, choking, restraining)
- Emotional or verbal abuse (threats, humiliation, intimidation)
- Sexual abuse or coercion
- Financial abuse (controlling money, preventing work)
- Isolation from friends, family, or community
- Stalking, monitoring, or controlling behavior
Domestic violence can happen to anyone and is never the victim/survivor’s fault.
Signs of Domestic Violence
Not all abuse leaves visible injuries. Many signs are emotional or behavioral.
Physical Signs May Include:
- Unexplained injuries or frequent “accidents”
- Chronic pain, headaches, or fatigue
- Delayed or avoided medical care
Emotional or Behavioral Signs May Include:
- Fear of a partner or family member
- Anxiety, depression, or feeling “on edge”
- Low self-esteem or self-blame
- Isolation from friends, family, or cultural supports
- Changes in work, school, or daily routines
If you recognize these signs in yourself or someone you care about, help is available.
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What to Do If You Are Experiencing Domestic Violence
You deserve to be safe. You have choices, and support is available at every step.
1. Get to a Safe Place. If you are in immediate danger, call 911. If possible, go somewhere safe, such as a trusted person’s home, a shelter, or a public place.
2. Seek Medical Care. If you are injured or concerned about your health call 911 or seek medical care as soon as possible. You can receive treatment even if you choose not to report. Healthcare providers can help document injuries and support your health needs.
3. Reporting. Reporting to law enforcement is your choice. Call 911 or work with an advocate. An advocate can help you decide what works best for you and can help you file a protection order.
4. Reach out for support. Advocates can support you regardless of what you decide and can offer guidance and resources. You do not have to stay in a shelter to receive services.
For Information on domestic violence assessments and group treatment for offenders, call 605-731-2021 or visit LSS Behavioral Health Services.
